How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love

“ there’s a story in your head that one day you’ll wake up and feel ready. That story is fiction”

“While love may be a natural instinct, dating isn’t. We’re not born knowing how to choose the right partner”

Fundamental-Attribution Error: our tendency to believe someone’s actions reflect who they are rather than the circumstances. When someone makes a mistake, we interpret the misstep as revealing something essential, and essentially bad, about that person’s character. We don’t look for external reasons to explain the behavior.