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lena_parshina56 февраля 2025 г.I still believed the act of showing yourself fully to a new person was a risk, but somewhere inside me a fresh knowledge was unfolding: that the risk of not doing so - of never being seen, of never expressing needs, of never giving and accepting real love-was far greater.
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lena_parshina56 февраля 2025 г.I learnt that the loneliest place of all is lying in bed at night next to someone who makes you feel small, with your back to theirs, still hoping they will turn over and put their arms around you.
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lena_parshina527 февраля 2025 г.Читать далееIt's true, you can die at any time, but I've never felt my life was in imme-diate danger, just that it was always in danger, so I had better get on with living it. That attitude meant I refused to take a boring job, or make a decision I really didn't want to, just because it might give me enough money to do something interesting in the future. I had no time for deferred gratifi-cation. That wasted time in the present suddenly seemed too harsh a payment. It wasn't about thinking 'live fast, die young', it was more that I knew what I wanted to be happy, fulfilled and free and I wasn't willing to do things that weren't in pursuit of that.
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lena_parshina520 февраля 2025 г.I understand then that old friends do not always need to be the center of each other's worlds to continue to love each other.
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lena_parshina517 февраля 2025 г.We have to stay in constant conversation with someone we love, and sex is different way to have a conversation with them.
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lena_parshina517 февраля 2025 г.Like you, your partner is always work in progress. As someone who loves them, your job is to keep knowing them, to keep being curious.
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lena_parshina516 февраля 2025 г.a relationship isn't a course you can study for and then complete. Instead, it is a decision you make every day to build something meaningful with another person.
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lena_parshina59 февраля 2025 г.You're not meant to lose sleep or cry over love. You shouldn't have to fight for it. If it feels like a fight, don't waste your time.
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