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aaannnnnnaaa6 августа 2020 г.The word love is most often defined as a noun, yet all the more astute theorists of love acknowledge that we would all love better if we used it as a verb.
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Yanakano_san22 марта 2016 г.Читать далееThe wounded child inside many males is a boy who, when he first spoke his truths, was silenced by paternal sadism, by a patriarchal world that did not want him to claim his true feelings. The wounded child inside many females is a girl who was taught from early childhood on that she must become something other than herself, deny her true feelings, in order to attract and please others. When men and women punish each other for truth telling we reinforce the notion that lies are better. To be loving we wiliingiy hear each other's truth and, most important, we affirm the value of truth telling. Lies may make people feel better, but they do not help them to know love.
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mon_amie5 февраля 2022 г.Death is among us. To see it always and only as a negative subject is to lose sight of its power to enhance every moment.
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mon_amie5 февраля 2022 г.Love empowers us to live fully and die well. Death becomes, then, not an end to life but a part of living.
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mon_amie5 февраля 2022 г.it is the fear of threat rather than a real threat that is the catalyst for an obsession with safety that borders on madness
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mon_amie5 февраля 2022 г.In our culture the worship of death is so intense it stands in the way of love
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mon_amie5 февраля 2022 г.Love makes us feel more alive. Living in a state of lovelessness we feel we might as well be dead; everything within us is silent and still. We are unmoved.
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mon_amie5 февраля 2022 г.Toni Morrison [in her first book, "The Bluest Eye"] identifies the idea of romantic love as one "of the most destructive ideas in the history of human thought." Its destructiveness resides in the notion that we come to love with no will and no capacity to choose. This illusion, perpetuated by so much romantic lore, stands in the way of our learning how to love. To sustain our fantasy we substitute romance for love.
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