She dreamed of playing at Wimbledon too, and she dreamed of seeing one of her children or one of her students playing at Wimbledon, and she dreamed far more reasonably and feasibly of one day being a spectator at Wimbledon. But her dreams didn’t have the same ferocious entitlement as Stan’s because she was a woman. And women know that babies, and husbands, and seek parents can derail your dreams. At any moment they can drag you from your beds, they can for-stole your career, they can lift you from your prized seat at Wimbledon from a match later described as epic.